Assume Love in the Other

Nov 22, 2022

Because it’s the season of gathering, I’ve got a cool “advanced” communication tool for you. As much as we love our family, we may find ourselves in an uncomfortable conversation with "uncle Bob" during the extended family holiday meal.  

To maintain the peace, and the love, try this technique of assuming love in the other.

This can keep you from getting hooked and getting into a reactionary and adversarial position, even though you may not agree.

This is an advanced communication technique!


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